和衷共济 患难与共 同舟共济 同心协力
1.和衷共济
（hé zhōng gòng jì）是指同心协力克服困难。出自于老舍《赵子曰》第二：“遇到国家、社会、学校发生重大事故的时候，大家也真能和衷共济的讨论救济的方法。”
【举例造句】： 他见了启事便跑到书店里来，谈了些和衷共济的话。 ★郭沫若《学生时代·创造十年》
2.患难与共
出处
《礼记·儒行》：“儒有闻善以相告也，见善以礼相示也，爵位相先也，患难相死也。”
释义
共同承担危险和困难。指彼此关系密切，利害一致。
3.同舟共济
【注 音】tóng zhōu gòng jì
【英文】Help one another, for we are all in the same boat.
【解 释】舟：船；济：渡，过河。意思：坐一条船比喻在困难时，大家同心协力，共同渡过难关。也作“同舟而济”。
【出 处】先秦·孙武《孙子·九地》
例句
我是谁，你是谁，咱们是患难之交，～还来不及哪！（浩然《艳阳天》第100章）
通常在林海里人与人相遇，和在远洋航海中～一样，为什么他竟这样势不两立。 （曲波《林海雪原》二十七）
4.同心协力
解释
心：思想；协：合。团结一致，共同努力。
出处
汉· 贾谊《 过秦论》：“且天下尝同心并力攻秦矣，然困于险阻而不能进者，岂勇力智慧不足哉？”
《 周书· 崔谦传》：“然后与宇文行台，同心协力，电讨不庭，则桓文之勋，复兴于兹日矣。”
示例
我自愿 漆身吞炭， 尝胆卧薪，同心协力期雪耻，须 歃血为誓。 ★明· 朱鼎《玉镱台记·新亭流涕》只要我们大家～，就没有克服不了的困难。
明 冯梦龙《东周列国志》第四十三回：“秦穆公临别，与晋文公相约：‘异日若有军旅之事，秦兵出，晋必助之；晋兵出，秦亦助之。彼此同心协力，不得坐视。’”
同舟共济 in the same boat:we are in the same boat.
交往过程中我们要注意平等和尊重,互助前进才能共赢.朋友给予你的帮助你需要珍惜,所以我们要与朋友和睦相处
We pay attention to the equality and respect, in the process of interaction and mutual assistance to win-win progress.
Friends will give you the help you need to cherish, so we're going to get along well with your friends
Disabled people are normal people, except that they can not see as much as we can, or they can not walk as fast as we can. Since they can not see as much, or they can not walk as fast, they need our help.
We can immediately do a long list of ways in which we can help them, for instance, Each student finds some one to help, in the neighborhood or the community. You can help them to cross the road. You can help pushing their wheel chairs. l Set up kind of organization. Collect some money. Use this money to help them, to buy them daily necessities, to help their children finish school. As they are disabled, it is more difficult for them to earn as much as normal people do. That’s why they usually need help in physical things. As they are disabled, they feel lonely. They think they are not as good as normal people. They easily become lonely, sad, disappointed. They easily lose hope of life. They need help more in spiritual things. They need people to chat with. They need people to encourage them to continue their lives. They need people to get rid of prejudices over them. Now, I would suggest, do whatever we can to help them. We can donate our pocket money. We can walk up to help the disabled to cross the street. We can make friends with the disabled by visiting them, by calling them, by emailing them, by whatever means. However, don’t always think we are better than the disabled. As normal people, we always make normal mistakes.
We take it for granted that we can see things while the blind can not. If you know the story about Helen Keller, you will understand why you are wrong. The blind can not see with their bare eyes, but they can see better with their ears. They can see better with their hands. So, help the disabled while you treat them like normal people. And they are normal people!
首先说一下我自己的贵人都是努力得到的！一般你需要做的以下几点，贵人自然靠近你
学习是提升自己修养的最便宜，一个人如果不肯学习，那么周边的都会是不爱学习的人，怎么会有正面的贵人来选择帮助你，你要考虑贵人来帮你也是为了他自己的利益，如果一个碌碌无为的人能给他带来什么收获，所以学习是吸引人的基础！
人在外性格很重要，一个性格内敛的人会给别人一种神秘的可靠感，但是能做到的很少。不是传统意义上的沉默不语，而是眼神中就能看出你要的答案那种人，很厉害，当然我们只需要把自己的性格修炼的平稳不要波澜起伏的就行了，这样的人会让别人敬畏所以贵人自然喜欢靠拢你，因为你很有安全感！
情绪化不利于交往，我们的贵人也是普通人，而普通人喜欢跟什么样的人交往呢？总不会是神经质的人，控制不好情绪的人是不会有什么大作为的。情绪激动智商就会直线下降，处理事情的思维就会混乱，所以控制情绪的人都是稳重老成的。既能被别人帮也会成为别人的贵人！
学会规划自己一天的时间，慢慢就会规划一年，在以后就能规划一生了，人一生的梦想太多需要合理的安排才能完成最终的目标，整天都是天马流星拳的人是不会对事业家庭有责任心的，所谓的小孩就是这样，孩子才不懂规划随意生活！所以有心帮助你的人是不喜欢没有规划的人，即使借钱人家也要看你是不是一个有目标准则的人！
以上就是你吸引贵人的必修课！如果一条没有那需要好好修炼一下了！
