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Last Sunday we went to visit the Old People's Home. We set out early in the morning and brought them lots of warmness. We gave them many books and lots of fruits. We talked with them happily and told them lots of interesting stories. We helped them wash their clothes and clean the rooms. We even taught them how to use computers. We were very happy and so were the old. When we had to say goodbye to them, they really didn't want us to go. They thanked us a lot and we really moved by them. Although we did very little,it meant a lot to the old. So next time, if we had chance, we would come again.
这样做,你的晚年生活不会凄凉
每个人都有老的那一天,这是自然规律,谁都躲不掉。那么如何使自己的晚年生活不凄凉呢?这样做,你就会安享晚年。
首先,要在观念上与时俱进,不要把自己的晚年生活驾驭儿女的陪伴上,整天围着你转,那是不可能的,也是强人所难。因为如今时代不同了,旧时代养儿防老的传统做法已经不适合当今社会发展的现实。如今社会是市场经济,特点是优胜劣汰,适者生存,年轻人的工作、生活以及扶养儿女压力山大,自顾不暇。有能力的父母或出钱相助缓解其生活压力,或出力帮他们带孩子解除后顾之忧。如今儿女,一对夫妻上有四个老人,下有一至两个孩子,有做不完的工作,干不完的家务,每天还要辅导孩子的作业,双休日还要送孩去兴趣辅导班,他们哪有时间和精力陪伴老人呢。
其次,要把自己的晚年生活安排好,充分发挥其特长、兴趣和爱好,寻找属于自己的快乐。
如今我们有幸赶上了网络普及信息化时代,一机在手,应有尽有,各取所需,不离不弃。即使不会玩智能手机,只要你把自己的兴趣爱好发挥到极致,你的晚年生活就会丰富多彩。例如,与老伴外出旅游,开阔视野,陶冶情操。与合得来的好朋友聚一聚,聊聊天,玩玩扑克,打打麻将,下下棋。或去广场溜溜弯,唱唱歌,跳跳舞。这样你的生活就会充实而有意义,没有孤独寂寞。
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