There are many problems with the city children, such as Internet addtion, study-weariness, fragility, violence
, being material【物质的,出自麦当娜Material Girl歌词】and as cold as marble, while the country children are simple, brave and diligent. Everyone who swapped their life got a different one, because they decided to change themselves from the bottom of heart. And because of their truly experience of new life, they finally found out themselves. That is the attraction of the program.
I learn much from this program.
It is known to all that no parents don't love their children and vice versa. It's different between the ways of how they express their love, but they can't be inseparable from each other.
I'd like to apologize to those who I hurt and wish to get their forgiveness. I hope that I won't be wilful and stubborn any more. Be more mature and more rational.
I wish to be easy-going, and to treat the relatives and friends around me kindly, smooth over faults I made before for my ignorance.
If we swap the position, try to go others' way, maybe we'll find out that we should be satisfied with something. We'll learn to care about and cherish the happiness that was hard-earned before. What's more, standing in others' position, we can also understand that something happened was caused by our muddle. Last but not least, we should sharpen our eyes, take care of the faults we made before by heart, and tell the fate, that nothing can defeat us.
很认真的翻译,求采纳.
Dear Li Lei
I am sorry that you are adicted in the internet.It takes you too much time to surf the internet every day.Sometimes you don't go to school and you don't often finish doing your homework on time.I am worried about you a lot.It's my opinion that being a student,we should place our study,health and safety before other things.If you spend too much time on computer,it'll bad for your health and your study.So why not concentrate on your study and you'd better spend some time doing sports because it's good for both your health and your study.
Yours
Zhang Ming
让我们戒掉网瘾
Let's slough off internet addiction
Let's abstain from internet addiction
额。我不自觉
孩子沉迷电子设备上网或者玩游戏估计是现在非常普遍的问题了，我家娃11岁了，不仅沉迷，还会跟你斗智斗勇，不管你怎么把程序禁止，他总能找到看视频玩游戏的方法。当时想着是完全禁止他能碰到电子设备，但如今不管上课还是作业还是日常的知识储备，都需要电子设备，根本无法完全禁止。
既然无法完全禁止，只能引导他合理使用了。孩子的爸爸首先是把手机、pad和电脑使用儿童管制设置或程序进行管控，从硬件上尽量让他无法接触到不想让他接触的内容。其次，对孩子进行分数管理，因为现在孩子都在家上网课，我们给孩子设置了一个表格，表格中包括学习、生活两个方面，学校的必学内容占一部分分数，课外学习占一部分分数，比如练琴、读书、听英语小故事等等，生活中的包括做饭、收拾屋子、洗衣服等等，分数用来换取娱乐时间，每天兑现。这个方法已经使用了大概三个月，还是很有效果的，一个是他逐渐自己能管理自己的时间（但经常还是需要家长提醒），另一个既然能光明正大的玩儿，他就很少再偷着玩儿了（但偶尔也会开小差）。
另外，就是爸爸妈妈也要一起努力，我平时管理孩子的学习，帮助他控制时间，爸爸在周末的时候会带着孩子一起使用电脑，教教他编程，或者陪他一起打游戏，并且在孩子能够做到某项任务时，就不停的夸奖他。等过去了，有空闲时间多带孩子出去走走，都能很好的控制他使用电子设备的频率，当他能够从其他地方获得乐趣，就不会经常想着去自己玩手机玩游戏。
希望这种方法能对你有一些启发，每个孩子性格脾气都不太一样，方法也得各不相同，在陪伴孩子的这段时间里，我发现真的是需要“陪伴”，如果你让他在父母这里能够“得到”且发现乐趣，你就能很好的“控制”他了，而且会发现能和孩子一起成长。
